Return to Reality
by Slack, on March 26th, 2004
Let’s see… It’s been a nice vacation for sure. Got to spend some quality time with keike, and had some nice personal time to recharge… Sleep, however, is something that was not a major activity during my time off. But, it’s all good. Heidi has been taking the brunt of the feedings and comforting when Hambone cries. I took a day to give mom a well deserved break, but it was not near enough for her I’m sure. We’ve got a bit of a routine worked in now, and hopefully that will help once I return to work on Saturday…
Rhys weighs in at 6 lbs 13 ozs!! He’s been gaining like mad. Which is a surprise since he’s been spitting up like a broken lawn sprinkler, too. The doc says he can spit up as much as he wants since he’s gaining weight. And, besides, she doesn’t have to clean it up. She finished out that statement with a manical laugh. :) Ha friggin ha. :) His doc, however, is the best doc in the world. I couldn’t imaging feeling more comfortable with a pediatrician. :) That’s a major load off my shoulders. We’ve talked to the NICU nurses in email and on the phone. We miss them so much! One of his primary nurses will be seeing him at his next doctor’s appointment! It was so nice of her to call and show an interest. They are truly remarkable people.
In other news, I’m having one of my breakdowns again… ugh… I can’t wait for Rhys to grow up so I can ask him what he wants to do when he grows up — I’m bound to find some good ideas that way! :) I need to do something creative (not necessarily at my job, tho that would be a bonus). My head is just so full lately I can’t concentrate on anything. But, I guess that’s to be expected. What I need right now, is a nice bike ride up the mountain. Something to clear my head. But we have to sell our land before I can get a bike, so it’s still put on the back burner.
All in all life is quite good. We’re happy to have Rhys home. Even in light of all the non-normal things we have to deal with for our son (like oxygen tubes, etc) it is still a major joy. It’s the happiest time in my life right now, and I’m the most miserable and sleep deprived I’ve ever been… Yay! I’m a paradox!
Lastly, Heidi and I celebrated (I use that term loosely) our 6th anniversary on the 25th! Yay!!! I can’t imagine being with anyone else, yet sometimes I’m amazed at how compatable we are in light of how many polar differences we have!! Opposites attract for sure. :)
Take care out there. :) Here’s some pics of Hambone.
Rhys in my favorite outfit for him:
Dad! Can’t you see I’m eating!?
Hey man? Is that bottle for *ME*?
Last is what I found on the couch the other night. Rhys, Mom, and Pouncer (aka: retard)
Great pics!
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It has been great to be able to keep up with everything that’s going on (via the website) without feeling that I’m bothering you at a bad time by calling. What a great history you’re creating for Rhys when he’s older (he’ll love the jedi warrior going after the dreaded wasps).
Maybe your story will turn into your creative outlet in some way.
In the meantime, keep taking such good care of that precious cutie.
Love to you all,
Kathy
Happy Anniv…I meant to call today, oh well, tomorrow ( I mean the 26th…everything is relitive when you have sleep deprivation because of newborns, no?) Just wanted to say that the pics are unbelievable, he’s the most beautiful boy infant I’ve seen in 4 years!! God, you guys..anyway, thanks for the update. Still need a webcam but the stills will work until we can throw your baby in w/our brood. At least I can see him, ja? Heid looks remarkably like me of late! LOVE YOU soooo much-B
I miss my darling Rhys so very much!! Counting the days till am 100% better so I can come over and visit the three of you. Thanks for the update and the pictures. He looks wonderful! At the rate he’s gaining, he’ll probably be 7 lbs. by the time I get to hold him again. Hope to see you next week.
All my love,
Mom
xoxoxo
It just seems like yesterday when the two of you got married…WOW, so cool! A late Happy Anniversary!
Rhys is just darling and has become so important in our family that your updates are valued more than I can say. We love you all.
Hope to see you in May for the housewarming for Cyn and Drew.
Love,
Pat and Greg
hi. im so glad every thing is going good. i love those pictures.take care. give rhys a kiss for me. love
charity
Hi Allen & Heidi,
Such cute pictures !! He is really growing & still looks like your Dad. It is so nice to read all about what is going on with you guys even tho I talk to your Mom often & she keeps us informed. Heidi,you look great & I know with a new baby all you want to do is sleep. I can still remember that with my kids
Congratulations on your 6th anniversary !! Doesn’t seem like it has been that long.
Love you both ,
Aunt Dorothy
Awesome. God Bless your Family!
Happy Anniversary – Yay Scordatos!
JG